day 26 - the type of male that attracts me

I can honestly say that I am attracted to the type of person who has a strong work ethic, has some education, strong common sense and has a passion for something.  I like knowing someone who is passionate about their work and about other things too. He has to stand for something and has to have a dream. 

 I am also attracted to a man that has a sense of humor. I love to laugh. If I can laugh with you all the time then I definitely want to be around you.  Be a smart ass, I love to go back and forth with you because you are witty. That attracts me, I will look to be around you just to constantly mess with you and start the sarcasm.

I do like a guy who is a bit of a bad ass and is not afraid of things.  I like to feel protected.

I like a man to be able to stand up to me.  I am a strong willed woman and I have an attitude problem but if you can go toe to toe against me and be able to stand your ground, then I like you. I think a man with a backbone is worth knowing and I will want to be near you. It is okay to show me that I am not always right. You gain my respect when you can show me why I am not right. I may not like it, but I will like you.

I want you to be able to protect me. I want to feel secure around you so I am attracted to a man who is my height or taller and can wrap his arms around me and protect me. I need to know you will protect me. 

He has to have a soft side to him. Yes I want strength, etc., but I want you to let me know that when it comes to me you are not afraid to show that you care for me. Touch my arm, touch the small of my back, poke me softly on my side, hug me and kiss me because you want me to know how much you want me. 

Lastly, I am attracted to nerds and geeks and yes that includes that you wear glasses. There is something about a man that looks great with glasses that turns my head faster than the man who attracts all the girls to his yard. I like my nerds…with a bit of cool. So i admit I like it when a guy knows how to dress fairly well. Brand names don't matter but please do not look like a slob. Thanks. 

Oh....and you have to smell good....so please practice great hygiene and have great cologne.

I have never been one to discriminate so ethnicities...I am open to all just as long as we can get along and converse. 

So basically a nerd, sarcastic, intelligent, driven, and a bit of a bad ass that is over 6ft tall and is SOLIDLY built with a bit of a tummy attracts me especially if he works hard but has a soft spot for his lady.

You shall have my heart right away…<3